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		<description><![CDATA[Having read and loved In Xanadu:  A Quest by William Dalrymple, and having received recommendations by friends who say they read ALL of William Dalrymple, I started on this second book, The Age of Kali. I didn&#8217;t like it, not one bit. I am proud to say I read it all the way to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=intlxpatr.wordpress.com&blog=399561&post=6138&subd=intlxpatr&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Having read and loved <a href="http://intlxpatr.wordpress.com/2009/03/09/in-xanadu-a-quest-by-william-dalrymple/#comments">In Xanadu:  A Quest</a> by William Dalrymple, and having received recommendations by friends who say they read ALL of William Dalrymple, I started on this second book, <strong>The Age of Kali</strong>. I didn&#8217;t like it, not one bit. I am proud to say I read it all the way to the end, because often if I don&#8217;t like a book, I will say to myself &#8220;I don&#8217;t need this!&#8221; and toss it, but I didn&#8217;t, I stuck with it. I am proud because it isn&#8217;t easy to stick with a book you don&#8217;t like, and I didn&#8217;t like this book. </p>
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<p><strong>In Xanadu</strong>, Dalrymple was wryly funny, hilariously funny, and most of the humor was directed at himself. In <strong>The Age of Kali</strong>, there is nothing funny. </p>
<p>The <strong>Age of Kali</strong> is a series of interviews and adventures in India and Pakistan. The author did these interviews and took notes (some are published in slightly different forms as magazine articles) over a period of ten years and then strung them all together to form this book. There is little or no linkage from one to the other. They are grouped geographically.</p>
<p>Here is what I like and admire &#8211; this man achieves the most amazing interviews, many times just by asking the right person at the right time. He insinuates himself, asks easy questions, and then sticks in a hard question. He doesn&#8217;t seem to flinch from putting himself in danger, and he doesn&#8217;t stand on respect when asking his questions. I admire that he went difficult places, interviewed difficult people, and wrote the interviews up without fawning over the celebrity status of his interviewee.</p>
<p>What I don&#8217;t like is that he doesn&#8217;t seem to like anybody very much. There are no funny anecdotes. By the end of the first interview, I began to get an impression that he doesn&#8217;t like India very much (and I believe that is NOT true, as he lives part-time in Delhi) and that India is not a place I want to visit. He interviews corrupt politicians, descendants of the moghuls, Benazir Bhutto &#8211; and her mother, Imran Khan (the cricket player) and many others. In each and every interview, he maintains a distance that tells us he doesn&#8217;t like these characters very much. </p>
<p>Here are some quotes from early in the book:</p>
<p><strong>These days Bihar was much more famous for its violence, corruption and endemic caste-warfare. Indeed, things were now so bad that the criminals and the politicians of the state were said to be virtually interchangeable:  no fewer than thirty-three of Bihar&#8217;s State Assembly MLAs had criminal records, and a figure like Dular Chand Yadav, who had a hundred cases of <em>dacoity</em> and fifty murder cases pending against him, could also be addressed as the Honorable Member for Barth.</strong></p>
<p>As he interviews Bihar politician Laloo Prasad Yadav:</p>
<p><strong>I asked Laloo about his childhood. He proved only too willing to talk about it. He lolled back against the side of the plane, his legs stretched over two seats.</p>
<p>&#8216;My father was a small farmer,&#8217; he began, scratching his balls with the unembarrassed thoroughness of a true yokel.</strong></p>
<p>OK, that was funny. I had to read it aloud to AdventureMan. One of the things that still unnerves me living here is that the men are always touching themselves &#8211; something so totally forbidden in my culture as to be simply unthinkable. </p>
<p>In his section about Pakistan:</p>
<p><strong>These people &#8211; the Pathans &#8211; have never been conquered, at least not since the time of Alexander the Great. They have seen off centuries of invaders &#8211; Persians, Arabs, Turks, Moghuls, Sikhs, British, Russians &#8211; and they retain the mixture of arrogance and suspicion that this history has produced in their character. History has also left them with a curious political status. Although most Pathans are technically within Pakistan, the writ of Pakistan law does not carry in to the heartland of their territories.</p>
<p>These segregated areas are in effect private tribal states, out of the control of the Pakistan government. They are an inheritance from the days of the Raj:  the British were quite happy to let the Pathans act as a buffer zone on the edge of the Empire, and they did not try to extend their authority in to the hills. Where the British led, the modern Pakistani authorities have followed. Beyond the checkpoints on the edge of the Peshawar, tribal law &#8211; based on the institutions of the tribal council and the blood feud &#8211; rules unchallenged and unchanged since its origins long before the birth of Christ.</strong></p>
<p>When I read this, I think of recent headlines about the problems Pakistan is having maintaining order, fighting the status of &#8220;failed-nation&#8221;, and the chaotic administration of tribal &#8220;justice.&#8221; The old ways have endured &#8211; but as we learned in <a href="http://intlxpatr.wordpress.com/2008/07/14/three-cups-of-tea/#comments"> Three Cups of Tea</a>, there are villages where villagers are eager to have modern schools, eager to educate their daughters, and they, too, are victims of the fanatics who burn the schools and throw acid on women attending school. </p>
<p>The author is told, time and time again by Indian citizens, that India has entered The Age of Kali, &#8220;the lowest possible throw, an epoch of strife, corruption, darkness and disintegration.&#8221; The book reflects the darkness, corruption and disintegration the author found. I only wish there were some moments of relief, of lightness, hope or humor to encourage the reader on his/her way, but the documentation of this lowest throw was relentless.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[This book was on my (huge) &#8220;Read Me&#8221; stack, and I picked it up for a change of pace. As I started reading, I wondered &#8220;how did this get there?&#8221; My first instinct was it was a recommendation from Little Diamond. As I was reading, however, I came across a segment that was what our [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=intlxpatr.wordpress.com&blog=399561&post=5810&subd=intlxpatr&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>This book was on my (huge) &#8220;Read Me&#8221; stack, and I picked it up for a change of pace. As I started reading, I wondered &#8220;how did this get there?&#8221; My first instinct was it was a recommendation from <a href="http://adiamondinsunlight.wordpress.com/">Little Diamond</a>. As I was reading, however, I came across a segment that was what our priest had read in church around the Feast of the Epiphany about the birthplace of the wise men who came seeking the Christ Child after his birth. I wrote down the title and ordered it from amazon.com (which has some copies used from 72 cents).</p>
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<p>William Dalrymple wrote this book when he was a mere 22 years old. He and a travelling companion took off to trace Marco Polo&#8217;s journey from Jerusalem to Xanadu, where he was taking oil from the sanctuary lamp to Kubla Khan.</p>
<p>In a world where we have all been taught to be so careful, they take incredible risks. They travel on the cheap &#8211; staying in fleabag hotels, sometimes sleeping &#8220;rough&#8221;, i.e. out in the open. They travel any way they can &#8211; an occasional train, but more often a truck, a bus, whatever is going their way. One very long segment they travelled on top of a pile of coal. </p>
<p>They travel from Jerusalem up through Syria and into Turkey, then turn east and cross Iran, Pakistan and Afghanistan to China. They have some amazing adventures, see some astounding scenery and because of their mode of travel, have a lot of time to talk with their travelling companions or people in the cities where they are staying. </p>
<p>I am blown away that an unmarried couple would cross Iran, Pakistan and Afghanistan. I guess they told people they were married to share a room (they were on a budget) and they were only friends, not a couple, but what a risk. I am astonished that they were never asked to produce a marriage license or any proof of marriage when they stayed in hotels. I am astonished at the girls (one left in Lahore and another joined him, but these are girls who are friends, not anything more) would travel on the backs of trucks full of men, and never blink an eye. </p>
<p>The book is occasionally hilarious. Most of the hilarity results from foods they have to eat &#8211; sometimes it is the only food available &#8211; or from misunderstandings because of lack of a common language, or due to their frequent bouts of diarrhea, what I really liked about the author was that he was rarely pompous, and when he is funny, it is usually about some conversation he has had, or some mistake he has made. </p>
<p>One of my favorite parts of the book happens in Iran:</p>
<p><strong>As we sat waiting for the bus to Tabriz, the next town on Marco Polo&#8217;s itinerary, we watched the mullahs speeding past in their sporty Renault 5s. Iran was proving far more complex than we had expected. A religious revolution in the twentieth century was a unique occurence, resulting in the first theocracy since the fall of the Dalai Lama in Tibet. Yet this revolution took place not in a poor banana republic, but in the richest and most sophisticated country in Asia. A group of clerics was trying to graft a mediaeval system of government and a pre-medieval way of thinking upon a country with a prosperous modern economy and a large and highly educated middle class. The posters in the bus station seemed to embody these contradictions. A frieze over the back wall of the shelter spoke out, in the name of Allah, against littering. On another wall two monumental pictures of the Ayatollah were capped with the inscriptions in both Persian and English:</p>
<p>BEING HYGENIC IS DIRECTLY RELATED ON THE MAN&#8217;S PERSONALITY</p>
<p>and:</p>
<p>ALLAH COMMANDS THE RE-USE OF RENEWABLE RESOURCES.</p>
<p>We had expected anything of the Ayatollah. But hardly that he would turn out to be an enthusiastic ecologist.</strong></p>
<p>The challenge of this journey is to follow as closely as possible the path Marco Polo took, but two segments of the journey go through off-limits areas. They find a way into one, to discover later it is an atomic testing area, and the second, at the very end, around Xanadu, they find receptive Chinese officers who take them to have a brief glimpse of the ruins of Xanadu while booting them out of the area. As they stand in Xanadu, they repeat a poem that every American child grows up with in English Literature:</p>
<p>In Zanadu did Kubla Khan<br />
A stately pleasure-dome decree:<br />
Where Alph, the sacred river, ran<br />
Through caverns measureless to man<br />
Down to a sunless sea.</p>
<p>So twice five miles of gertile ground<br />
With walls and twoers were girdled round:<br />
And there were gardens bright with sinuous rills.<br />
Where blossom&#8217;d many an incense-bearing tree:<br />
And here were forests ancient as the hills,<br />
Enfolding sunny spots of greenery.<br />
(Coleridge)</p>
<p>I liked this book. Dalrymple is a history major, and often quotes from historical &#8211; even obscure &#8211; texts to illuminate what he observes. I think I may look at a couple more he has written since.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[The timing couldn&#8217;t be better. Thank you, Phantom Man, for sending a link to this New York Times article on  Three Cups of Tea, from the July 13th New York Times.
By NICHOLAS D. KRISTOF
Published: July 13, 2008
Since 9/11, Westerners have tried two approaches to fight terrorism in Pakistan, President Bush’s and Greg Mortenson’s.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><strong>The timing couldn&#8217;t be better. Thank you, Phantom Man, for sending a link to this New York Times article on <a href="http://intlxpatr.wordpress.com/2008/07/14/three-cups-of-tea/"> Three Cups of Tea</a>, from the July 13th </strong><strong>New York Times</strong>.</p>
<p><strong>By NICHOLAS D. KRISTOF<br />
Published: July 13, 2008</p>
<p>Since 9/11, Westerners have tried two approaches to fight terrorism in Pakistan, President Bush’s and Greg Mortenson’s.</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Greg Mortenson with Sitara “Star” schoolchildren. Photo: Fred R. Conrad/The New York Times</p>
<p>Mr. Bush has focused on military force and provided more than $10 billion — an extraordinary sum in the foreign-aid world — to the highly unpopular government of President Pervez Musharraf. This approach has failed: the backlash has radicalized Pakistan’s tribal areas so that they now nurture terrorists in ways that they never did before 9/11.</p>
<p>Mr. Mortenson, a frumpy, genial man from Montana, takes a diametrically opposite approach, and he has spent less than one-ten-thousandth as much as the Bush administration. He builds schools in isolated parts of Pakistan and Afghanistan, working closely with Muslim clerics and even praying with them at times.</p>
<p>The only thing that Mr. Mortenson blows up are boulders that fall onto remote roads and block access to his schools.</p>
<p>Mr. Mortenson has become a legend in the region, his picture sometimes dangling like a talisman from rearview mirrors, and his work has struck a chord in America as well. His superb book about his schools, “Three Cups of Tea,” came out in 2006 and initially wasn’t reviewed by most major newspapers. Yet propelled by word of mouth, the book became a publishing sensation: it has spent the last 74 weeks on the paperback best-seller list, regularly in the No. 1 spot.</p>
<p>Now Mr. Mortenson is fending off several dozen film offers. “My concern is that a movie might endanger the well-being of our students,” he explains.</p>
<p>Mr. Mortenson found his calling in 1993 after he failed in an attempt to climb K2, a Himalayan peak, and stumbled weakly into a poor Muslim village. The peasants nursed him back to health, and he promised to repay them by building the village a school.</p>
<p>Scrounging the money was a nightmare — his 580 fund-raising letters to prominent people generated one check, from Tom Brokaw — and Mr. Mortenson ended up selling his beloved climbing equipment and car. But when the school was built, he kept going. Now his aid group, the Central Asia Institute, has 74 schools in operation. His focus is educating girls.</p>
<p>To get a school, villagers must provide the land and the labor to assure a local “buy-in,” and so far the Taliban have not bothered his schools. One anti-American mob rampaged through Baharak, Afghanistan, attacking aid groups — but stopped at the school that local people had just built with Mr. Mortenson. “This is our school,” the mob leaders decided, and they left it intact.</strong></p>
<p>You can read the entire article in the <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/07/13/opinion/13kristof.html?em&amp;ex=1216353600&amp;en=9c88c225f9c56c67&amp;ei=5087%0A"> New York Times</a> by clicking on the blue type.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[My best-friend-from-college and I were chatting the other day and I asked her &#8220;what are you reading?&#8221; because we have always exchanged book recommendations back and forth.
&#8220;I&#8217;m reading a biography of Teddy Roosevelt,&#8221; she started, and I groaned, because most of the time biographies don&#8217;t interest me that much. &#8220;And I am reading  Three [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=intlxpatr.wordpress.com&blog=399561&post=3269&subd=intlxpatr&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>My <a href="http://intlxpatr.wordpress.com/2006/10/05/ill-be-there-for-you/#comments">best-friend-from-college</a> and I were chatting the other day and I asked her &#8220;what are you reading?&#8221; because we have always exchanged book recommendations back and forth.</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m reading a biography of Teddy Roosevelt,&#8221; she started, and I groaned, because most of the time biographies don&#8217;t interest me that much. &#8220;And I am reading <a href="http://www.ikat.org/"> Three Cups of Tea . . . &#8220;</a> and I interrupted her (rudely) to exclaim &#8220;so am I!&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Three Cups of Tea</strong> is a must-read in the US. It was actually published in 2006, and has sold more and more books every month, and has been on the New York Times best seller list almost since it was published.</p>
<p>The book begins with a failure. A mountaineer, attempting a climb on K2 runs into problems, including evacuating two severely injured fellow climbers from the mountain. Exhausted, and devastated by his failure to capture the summit, he gets lost on his way back to the base camp, and ends up in a village where the people are very kind to him. He is treated as an honored guest, he regains his strength, and on his last day in the village, learns the children have no school. He rashly promises to come back and build a school for them.</p>
<p>One of the great redeeming features in this book is Greg Mortenson&#8217;s endless humility. He has a co-author, to whom he gave a long list of people he could talk with, including all his enemies and people who thought he was crazy. He&#8217;s that kind of guy. He talks about his life&#8217;s personal failures and his toughest moments, and he moves on.</p>
<p>He doesn&#8217;t take credit for the dogged persistence with which he keeps his promise, in spite of daunting obstacles. He doesn&#8217;t take any credit for the good will he builds. </p>
<p>Several years ago, I read another book which has changed my life, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Purpose-Driven-Life-Journal-Rick-Warren/dp/0310803063/ref=pd_bbs_sr_2?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1216012242&amp;sr=1-2"> The Purpose Driven Life </a> (which, by the way, the hardcover is $9.99 and the paperback is $10.19, go figure) in which the basic premise of the book is that we are each created uniquely, individually, by a loving creator, for a purpose.  As I read <strong>Three Cups of Tea</strong>, I thought this man is greatly blessed; he discovered his purpose and nothing kept him from fulfilling it! </p>
<p>The book deserves every single one of it&#8217;s <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Three-Cups-Tea-Mission-Promote/dp/0143038257/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1216012448&amp;sr=1-1"> Amazon Five Star ratings.</a></p>
<p>I had a hard time putting the book down. Even though my life is full of other demands, once I had the chance, I spent an entire afternoon finishing this great book. </p>
<p>Greg Mortenson isn&#8217;t discouraged that his first school takes three years, and first he has to build a bridge. His second, third and fourth schools take just . . . three months! He has a gift for inspiring others, and people give what they can. The villagers give their time and their efforts, and western supporters donate funds.</p>
<p>By the end of the book, 24 school have been built, in the very poorest mountain villages in Pakistan, where money from the government for education doesn&#8217;t trickle at all, until near the end of the book. He doesn&#8217;t build the schools himself &#8211; he meets with the villagers, they donate a plot. He buys the materials, and together, they all build a school. These villagers are hungry for their children to become educated, to have a chance for a better life. Mortenson learns to focus on the girls. </p>
<p>He learns that as the boys become educated, they leave the villages for the city, but as the girls become educated, they come back, and like yeast, they raise the standard of living for the entire village, providing health care services and information, providing education for the newest crop of children, learning new skills, bringing them back and sharing them.</p>
<p>One of Mortenson&#8217;s gifts is that he isn&#8217;t interested in changing these mountain people into westerners. He likes them, and he learns from them, just the way they are. He dresses like them, he prays with them, he learns their language, and he has no western agenda for the curriculum in these schools. He also helps the government schools &#8211; building an additional room here for an overflowing school, paying a teacher&#8217;s salary there &#8211; his goal is to educate children. That&#8217;s it. No political agenda. The people of the villages love him for it, and give him their full support. </p>
<p>You cannot undertake a project like this without a lot of help. Mortenson had some extraordinary experiences, experiences that to me look like the grace of God, that drew together teams of people to help build and supply his schools.</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;I looked at a sign in front of the school and saw that it had been donated by Jean Hoerni, my cousin Jennifer&#8217;s husband,&#8221; Bergman says. &#8220;Jennifer told me Jean had been trying to build a school somewhere in the Himalaya, but to land in that exact spot in a range that stretches thousands of miles felt like more than coincidence. I&#8217;m not a religious person,&#8221; Bergman says, &#8220;but I felt I&#8217;d been brought there for a reason and I couldn&#8217;t stop crying.&#8221;</p>
<p>A few months later, at Hoerni&#8217;s memorial service, Bergman introduced herself to Mortenson. &#8220;I was there!&#8221; she said, wrapping the startled man she&#8217;d just met in a bruising hug. &#8220;I saw the school!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;You&#8217;re the blonde in the helicopter,&#8221; Mortenson said, shaking his head in amazement. &#8220;I heard a foreign woman had been in the village, but I didn&#8217;t believe it.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;There&#8217;s a message here. This is meant to be,&#8221; Julia Bergman said. &#8220;I want to help. Is there anything I can do?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Well, I want to collect books and create a library for the Korphe School,&#8221; Mortenson said.</p>
<p>Bergman felt the same sense of predestination she&#8217;d encountered that day at the school. &#8220;I&#8217;m a librarian,&#8221; she said.</strong></p>
<p>After struggling for many years, seeking donors who would help to build a school, Mortenson now has a foundation eagerly supported by many Americans, and especially the mountaineers, who continue to build schools. At the end of the book, the foundation is moving into the poorest sectors in Afghanistan, and building schools there. They have children&#8217;s programs in many of the schools in the United States, where children donate pennies to help pay for books for the schools, and for the teacher&#8217;s monthly salaries, where salaries are not reaching the teachers. You can donate to the school building fund, teacher&#8217;s salaries and books using your credit card, online, at the website <a href="http://www.threecupsoftea.com/Intro.php"> Three Cups of Tea.</a> You can order this book there, too, as well as music CD/s and learn more about the work being done.</p>
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		<title>Georgia Man Kills Daughter for Honor</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a sad story. When police arrested him, you get the impression he was really sad he did it, and caught up in something he regretted. 
Georgia Man Charged in &#8216;Honor Killing&#8217;
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>This is a sad story. When police arrested him, you get the impression he was really sad he did it, and caught up in something he regretted. </p>
<p><strong>Georgia Man Charged in &#8216;Honor Killing&#8217;<br />
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Posted: 2008-07-08 22:21:56<br />
Filed Under: Crime News, Nation News</p>
<p>ATLANTA (July <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_cool.gif' alt='8)' class='wp-smiley' /> &#8211; A Pakistani man is charged with killing his 25-year-old daughter in Georgia because she wanted out of an arranged marriage, police said.</p>
<p>Chaudhry Rashid, 54, of Jonesboro, an Atlanta suburb, appeared in court Tuesday afternoon to face murder charges in the death of Sandeela Kanwal, according to court records.</p>
<p>He was arrested early Sunday, after his wife called police at about 2 a.m. She reported that she had been awakened by screaming but couldn&#8217;t understand the language, a Clayton County police report said. She said she was afraid and left the house to call police.</p>
<p>Officers found Kanwal dead in an upstairs bedroom of the home, according to the police report.</p>
<p>Rashid&#8217;s wife told authorities Kanwal recently had been married in Pakistan &#8212; an arranged marriage, she said. The young woman&#8217;s husband was living in Chicago, Illinois, police said, but Kanwal remained at her father&#8217;s home and worked at a metro Atlanta Wal-Mart for a brief time.</strong></p>
<p>You can  read the rest of the story on <a href="http://news.aol.com/story/_a/georgia-man-charged-in-honor-killing/20080708154209990001"> AOL News by clicking here.</a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I wish he wouldn&#8217;t say things like that. Robert Mueller told  BBC News that he thinks we will see the end of Al Qaeda in three years.
To me, that is like waving a red flag in front of a bull. It&#8217;s a dare. I wish he would just go about defeating Al Qaeda in three [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=intlxpatr.wordpress.com&blog=399561&post=2673&subd=intlxpatr&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>I wish he wouldn&#8217;t say things like that. Robert Mueller told <a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/7335463.stm"> BBC News</a> that he thinks we will see the end of Al Qaeda in three years.</p>
<p>To me, that is like waving a red flag in front of a bull. It&#8217;s a dare. I wish he would just go about defeating Al Qaeda in three years, and not talk about it until it&#8217;s done. Maybe it is superstitious; I prefer action to talk. When you talk about defeating someone, you might just be setting yourself up to eat humble pie.</p>
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<p><strong>The head of the FBI has said he believes the West can achieve victory over al-Qaeda within three-and-a-half years.</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong><strong>Robert Mueller described how his organisation is working closely with British intelligence to confront ever-more-complex plots.</strong></p>
<p>Flanked by broad-shouldered security men with tell-tale bulges beneath their suits, the director of the FBI gave a rare public address in London.</p>
<p>As head of one of 16 US intelligence agencies, Mr Mueller is at the forefront of preventing a repeat of the September 11 attacks.</p>
<p>It was a task, he said, which could not be done without strategic partnerships with allies like Britain.</p>
<p>You can read the entire article <a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/7335463.stm"> HERE.</a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I had an emergency. Now YOU may not consider it an emergency, but I have a piece of equipment, and I have a major project and a deadline, and to meet that deadline, I need that piece of equipment. And, of course, that piece of equipment began to fail me.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>I had an emergency. Now YOU may not consider it an emergency, but I have a piece of equipment, and I have a major project and a deadline, and to meet that deadline, I need that piece of equipment. And, of course, that piece of equipment began to fail me.</p>
<p>Not to worry. I had heard of a place in Kuwait that could fix my machine. I had that pit in the stomach feeling, like &#8220;why didn&#8217;t I do some homework and find this place before my machine needed fixing. . . &#8221; Do you ever say things like that to yourself?</p>
<p>And of course, because I was desperate, when I would go into stores and ask if they knew where this place was, I was told, over and over, there was no such place.</p>
<p>Until one brave young Pakistani guy contradicted his employer and told me where he thought the place might be. Because of one way streets, and a convoluted traffic pattern, it took me several more passes before I spotted the place &#8211; which fortunately had one very small sign in English, as I can&#8217;t read Arabic very quickly, I still have to sound out all the letters until it sounds like a word I know. Like I am really good at &#8220;sharia&#8221; being street, but not very good at things I don&#8217;t see all the time.</p>
<p>And, by the grace of God, not only do I see the store, but there is &#8211; and this is truly a miracle &#8211; a decent parking spot fairly close to the shop. Thanks be to God.</p>
<p>I went into the shop, and there is another woman there, with her machine. I tell the man behind the counter that I have a small emergency. He doesn&#8217;t understand me, but he understands my tone, and sends a man to help bring in my machine.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s like the stand-off at the OK Corral. She looks at my machine, evaluating whether her&#8217;s is better, or mine. Seconds tick by, and she smiles, and the crisis is averted. She tells the man she will be back for her machine, which he sets aside to take a look at mine.</p>
<p>My machine is one of those simple machines, you are supposed to be able to do almost everything yourself. He does everything I have already done, and sits back, stumped. We both know what the problem is, and I know he can&#8217;t fix it. He calls a friend. He orders tea. We sit and talk as customers come in and out, checking on their machines, asking prices on new machines. We are speaking in Arabic, a language we both speak badly, so conversation often lulls. I&#8217;m not sure his friend is coming.</p>
<p>Finally, I pack up my machine, and of course, as soon as I get ready to leave, the friend arrives, and we need to unpack it again. Ten minutes, and my machine is good as new. He tells me what the replacement part would cost in Kuwait (if he hadn&#8217;t been able to fix it) and I gasp in horror &#8211; I will have to look for a replacement part this summer, back in the US, because I have checked online and yes, they are expensive, but cost about the same in dollars as it would in KD &#8211; i.e. $49 vs KD 40. Aaarrgh.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve spent two hours sitting and drinking tea in a shop that is sort of air conditioned, but the door was always open. I am hot, and sweaty, but my machine is fixed, at least enough that I can work on my project. </p>
<p>This is not the way it would happen in the United States. In the United States, I might get some sympathy, but I would not get same day service. I would have to leave my machine, I would have to be served in order, and I would not get my machine back until it were fixed, if it were fixed &#8211; people are not so good at fixing old things in the United States, you have to be really lucky. Mostly, when machines break, you buy a new one.</p>
<p>So I am feeling really lucky, really lucky, really blessed, to have had my machine emergency in Kuwait, where things are done differently, and my machine could be fixed on am emergency basis, while I waited. </p>
<p>P.S. The man who fixed my machine earns KD 80 a month &#8211; $280 for my US readers.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last but not least from today&#8217;s  Kuwait Times are two articles from recent news in Pakistan, both involving women and the men who (seem to) own them:
Police Seek Pakistanis Pressing Woman to Hand Over Her Daughter
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Last but not least from today&#8217;s <a href="http://www.kuwaittimes.net/"> Kuwait Times</a> are two articles from recent news in Pakistan, both involving women and the men who (seem to) own them:</p>
<p><strong>Police Seek Pakistanis Pressing Woman to Hand Over Her Daughter</strong></p>
<p><em>Karachi:  Police are seeking ten men, including several tribal elders, accused of pressuring a Pakistani woman to hand over her teenage daughter as payment for a 16 year old poker debt, officials said yesterday. </p>
<p>In the latest case highlighting how conservative customs threaten women&#8217;s rights in Pakistan, Nooran Umrani alleges that despite paying off her late husband&#8217;s debt of 10,000 Pakistani rupees, she was threatened with harm if she failed to hand over her daughter, Rasheeda. The 17 year old was to be surrendered as a bride for the son of Lal Haider, the man who won the card game years before, Umrani told reporters . . . Police said yesterday that the mother and daughter were in their protection and that an investigation was opened against Haider, his son, and eight others.  . . </p>
<p>Nooran said her husband was a gambler who ran up the debt at a poker game when Rasheeda was 1 year old. He promised Haider that he would get Rasheeda in lieu of payment when she grew up, Nooran said. . . .</p>
<p>President General Pervez Musharraf has vowed to give women more rights in line with his policy to project Pakistan as a moderate, progressive Islamic nation. In December, Musharraf signed into law a bill that makes it easier to prosecute rape cases in the courts, and the country&#8217;s ruling party recently introduced a bill to outlaw forced marriages, including under tribal custom in which woman are married off in order to settle disputes.</em></p>
<p>My comment: The debt was paid. And what was the father thinking?? giving away his daughter to cover his debts? I can&#8217;t wrap my mind around it.</p>
<p><strong>Pakistani Sells Wife&#8217;s Kidney to Buy Tractor</strong></p>
<p>Karachi: Pakistani police have arrested two men after a village woman complained that her husband and relatives had sold one of her kidneys in order to buy a tractor, police said yesterday. Although her kidney had been removed 18 months earlier, the woman named Safia only learnt it was missing after seeking treatment for a urinary tract problem in January. &#8220;She had said she was three months pregnant when her husband, Shakeel Ahmed beat her and then took her to the hospital for treatment,&#8221; said Mohammad Akram, duty officer at Noushera Jadeed police station in Punjab province. &#8220;But at the hospital, her husband, in connivance with three other people, sold her kidney to buy the tractor,&#8221; he said. Unlike many other parts of the world, including neighboring India, there is no law in Pakistan banning the trade in organs. Poverty-ridden Pakistanis living in rural areas sell their kidneys to pay off debts or raise money for their families. Sick but wealthy Pakistanis, and foreigners from the Gulf, Britain and Canada flock to private hospitals in Pakistan for kidney transplants, made possible by these donors.</p>
<p><strong>My comment:</strong> Seems his wife is just another revenue-raising resource to Shakeel Ahmed. If asked, she might have even agreed, but it would be nice to be asked, not to discover it 18 months later. The news article says he was arrested. I wonder if he committed a crime under Pakistani law?</p>
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